Friday, January 9, 2009

口是心非

口不对心(cantonese)-means a person said something that he/she didn't meant so.

口是心非 (Mandarin)-means a person said something else when their heart is thinking about something else. Why can't a person tells whatever they have in heart? It won't hurt anyone la! If i ask means i'm looking forward for a true answer from the heart. Not an answer just to please me or anyone!

We can't live our life pleasing others only. If we do so, it'll be such a tough time living together... Seriously... People, stop doing that! It's not helping at all. 

I felt rather sad when 1 of my closest friend did the exact same thing. To tell me the opposite answer of what her heart wants.

It's better to tell me what you want sincerely rather than telling me what i want just to please me. You are my Friend! You are suppose to be truthful to me! Not to mention that you are 1 of my best friend! Disappointed!

Written on 9th January 2009 at 4.27am (Moscow Time)

4 comments:

CharMaine g s7_ehui said...

dear darling,
thou i duno wats happening, but, i got d feeling d one u mean is ONE of us..
anyway, have a #pillow talk# wif u afta u wake up ba..~~

May b u feel not secure of things around.. (too close wif charmaine, being influence?! lol ) or .. jus turn to b emo sumtime..?

no matter wat, ur darling alwiz here by ur side.. no worries.. and alot of us stay wif u..

hope u r fine! =)wif luv, GB

Charis KLE said...

dear lynn,
i dunno wat happen but if i ever did anythin wrong or hurt u in any way, i'm very very sorry. watever happens, just want u to know, i'll alwiz b here whenever u need me like how u've been for me too. God is there for u too. rmb Proverbs 3:5? we love u.. God Bless.

ur roommate,
charis

Lynn said...

Thanks to both my darling Charis and Charmaine.

Indeed sth made me feel unhappy last nite. And ur feelings r true.

It's ok. I'm ok now. Nth la... No big deal really. After a good rest, i'm ok d. It's alright. I'm just disappointed over someone... I'm not gonna tell anyone any name. So no point asking.

Love,
Lynn

Lynn said...

Ask yourself. If you've done nothing like that, nvr said something but actually meant sth else then u r fine.

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